Friday, January 16, 2009

The End Is Near (For Me At Least)

Leon has been gone since Sunday morning and I have been a single mom this whole week. The first two days went by without a hitch. However, on Tuesday it was clear that my easy streak was over. Landon came to me with those dreaded words, "I'm not feeling well," and hunches into a ball on the floor. My first reaction was that he needed to visit the bathroom (still having #2 issues), but after reviewing his potty schedule in my head, I realized that this most likely wasn't the problem. I could feel my blood pressure and anxiety rising, but I did a great job of staying calm and talking myself out of my puke-a-phobe thoughts. He flopped around all evening complaining of his stomach and then developed a fever later in the night. He didn't sleep (and neither did I) most of the night. Wednesday was a difficult day with Landon complaining and being extra needy. He never threw up (answer to a prayer, literally) but I felt like he had enough symptoms that I should have him see the doctor to rule out Strep throat. After a BRUTAL experience for a germ-a-phobe at the doctor's office (I'll spare the details), the Strep test came back negative. Irronically enough, two hours after seeing the doctor, Landon seemed much better and his fever was gone by morning. Hmm. But, the story does not end here, unfortunately. Jayden started complaining of not feeling well Wednesday night (a fairly common occurance since I think Jayden is a hypochondriac). I tried to dismiss it, but with Landon already sick, I had to take it seriously. Jayden lives by the ear thermometer, checking his temperature daily (not exaggerating). So, I was not surprised to see that Jayden had a fever, too. Needless to say, Wednesday night was another sleepless one for me. Thursday was spent catering to Jayden's needs (and he seemed to have many), watching non-stop kid shows, and playing every two-player game we have in the closet - not such a bad day. Today being Friday I'm looking forward to this being the end of the week, but with Jayden home from school again, I'm afraid I'm destined to this for another day:
Leon comes home tomorrow and it's a three day weekend. I think I'll make it - wish me luck!

9 comments:

Mom and Camera said...

I can sympathize. A week is a long time and I feel for the moms who have to it all the time. I only have to do it a couple of times a year and that is plenty for me. Sometimes I do okay, and sometimes I don't. However, usually by day 5 I am tired and looking forward to the end. Sick kids would definitely tip the scales to "I-am-ready-for-this-to-be-over" mode. You have endured well and have some days to recover--look forward to that!!

Robyn said...

You'll make it!!!! The end is near Where's Leon? I swear weird things happen when Dads go out of town. I've had eardrum ruptures to falling out of bunk beds in the middle of the night when on my own.

Tara said...

Ah man...good luck! I don't know how single parents do it! I think there's a reason the Lord wants us to do this "together"! I have a friend with 6 kids and her husbands job has him home one week, gone the next, home, gone... Can you imagine? The only thing that keeps her sane is that when he's home, he's HOME...doesn't have to go into an office or work. I still don't think it would be worth it!

GOOD LUCK!!!

Jana said...

That does not sound fun at all!! I am so sorry, Good luck with the rest of the week and I hope he lets you do some major pampering!!! You deserve it!!! :)

Natalie said...

I feel your pain! Luckily I haven't had sick kids with no husband...but I've definitely been the single mom! It's rough. I hope the sickness is truly over and doesn't spread to Dallin or Cameron.

P.S. I love that they are still wearing the hats we gave them for Christmas. Too cute!

Jen said...

There must be something going around. Ryan woke up at 2:00 a.m. Sunday morning and started vomiting. He got up every 2 hours to vomit. He also had other problems and a fever. I took the kids to church by myself and kept them far away from Ryan for a good couple of days. I found myself seeing Ryan as a leper and was more worried about him getting me or the kids sick, than I was worried about him.
I hope you stay well. When the Mom gets sick, everything falls apart!

Dawn said...

I sure you made it through Friday and it appears you handled the week well! Challenges in the moment sometimes blur the success we actually achieve in the end!

Scott and Traci said...

Oh nightmare! Scott left a few nights ago and I knew I would have a nervous breakdown if the baby got the croup in the middle of the night from his already bad cold. Thankfully he didnt, but your post reminds me I'm not the only mom stressing about sick children! Glad you made it !!!

Scott and Traci said...

ps I love the stars on your bedroom wall